COMPROMISE WALA !!!


How to Compromise Matrimonial Disputes
SOME1 wrote:
Chatur Bhai, I want the matrimonial dispute compromised between me & my wife.
Can you pls suggest me what are the options under which a compromise can be signed between varying couple who are in court room against each other as enemies.
How’s that possible in that scenario?
Thanks for your kind help ad attention SIR.

aturchatur wrote:
dear SOME1, It can be done either through MCD (mutually consented divorce) or it can be done through mediator agreement based settlement or it can be through court fixed settlement terms binding on both the parties or through counseling in CAW followed by mediator agreement (which may be biased as per my personal experience) or through DDRS (Delhi Dispute Resolution Society) or compromise agreement before mediation centre of a court or a compromise achieved by judge/ PJ or Family Court Judge himself mediating between varying spouse.

But, as per my personal experience, if the spouse files counter cases on the petitioner/ complainant (which is usually a wife), and he files counter cases in such a manner that the documentary evidences submitted by him are non-rebuttable by the petitioner/ complainant spouse then in that situation the compromise can be achieved at the terms of the defendant spouse. For example:- In counter cases, the spouse should not normally put any fresh allegation and instead the best way to file counter cases is just to catch the lies of the wife. For instance, if the wife says that she needs right to residence or she needs an amount equivalent to rent and the husband knows that such wife immediately before filing 498a/ caw/ dv/ 125 etc had relinquished her share of property in the name of her mother by concealing her identity and the husband has collected evidences through sub-registrar office then this is cheating with the sub registrar office u/s 420 IPC as she concealed her true legal identity r/w the RTI evidences and this is also fraud on husband because after leaving husband and before filing cases she did such 420 IPC crime just to extort money from the husband and this is also fraud on court i.e., perjury hence in this situation three counter cases or at least three counter actions become very strong against the wife viz., (a) 420 IPC, (b) Extortion, & (c) Perjury and some more applications or counter cases to further push/ press the above three counter attacks may be as follows:- (d) perjury decide first, (e) arrest warrant against the wife for avoiding reply to perjury/ 420/ extortion if she avoids attending court due to this, (f) proxy fraud if she sends a proxy counsel on behalf of husband without husband’s authorization in order to avoid filing reply to perjury filed by husband, (g) written notes of arguments/ pursis/ purshis and many more.

SOME1 wrote:
Sir, you are the men rights activist then why are you writing spouse which means both husband and wife.
do you help the wives also in compromising a matrimonial dispute? wouldn’t that be a loss for the husbands if your expertise is used for the wives also. do u also help wives file counter cases against the husbands.

aturchatur wrote:
@ SOME1 I am not anti-women or anti-men. But of course, I am anti-falsity i.e., I am against false cases. I am an ardent fan of Mahatma Gandhi who preached truth. I am a big fan of truth. Thanks for calling me expert but I do a very easy job i.e., exposing the lies and pressing the truth which is very easy in the long run. In the short run of course there may be trouble for the truth but truth can not be defeated in the long run. Truth can even give instant results i.e., within a short period of time (6 months or more) husband can put his wife behind bars if 420 IPC or 138 NIA or Extortion type counter cases filed by him are supported with documentary evidences and husband is able to prove that the motive behind such crime/s was to extort money from the husband by abusing the power of the courts i.e., abuse of the process of the courts by pretending herself to be abla nari & misuse of the soft laws made for the protection of real victim women.

aturchatur wrote:
@ SOME1, u asked me whether I help women also then my answer is I try my level best to end a matrimonial dispute and more than around 98% people who call me are husbands or their relatives or other men suffering from unethical women in any manner. But if a woman comes to me and asks me to compromise a matrimonial dispute between her & her husband then I may charge Rs. 2,000/- from her for consulting her matter with me and if within the consulting I find that she is really ready to settle or compromise the matter with her husband as per husband’s paying capacity then I might advise her to give me express permission to contact her husband and discuss the matter with him. And after that if I may contact her husband then I may straight forward introduce myself to the husband and refer him to my website to read about me and instead of round and round talks I would rather ask the husband that your wife has come to me for settlement or compromising this matrimonial dispute. and if the husband shows positive signals or asks for time to think then instead of leaking this info to the wife directly I would rather wait and if it is found out that the husband and wife are ready to compromise at a amount then I might suggest them to give their respective terms to me so that I can assist them in preparing written agreement or mou or memorandum of understanding which is agreeable to both the sides. Of course, I may charge fees only for my services and I may not charge a percentage of commission as some agents may charge example:- monkey eats chapatti of two fighting cats. My goal would be to settle the dispute and not to escalate it. I would very strongly recommend them to not to take any lawyer or advocate with them during settlement or compromise because in family courts any of the parties to a dispute can object to the opposite party having advocate or lawyer and they must get the counsel/ advocate/ AOR/ lawyer of the other party also removed under the family courts act. However, amicus curae can be appointed by the court to settle their differences. But if the agreement or MOU is ready then job of amicus curae gets simplified and the process of compromise gets faster and I am a write-up expert so I try my best to take care of the interest of both the parties in such a manner that the husband is protected from false cases later on and the wife is protected from unwarranted trespass by the husband later on and of course I assist them in writing the custody and maintenance points in such a manner that this leaves almost no scope for dispute at a later stage.

SOME1 wrote:
Sir, Why wives do NOT goto jail in India for abusing Dowry laws?

aturchatur wrote:
because either the husband doesn’t fights in the right manner or during the fight he meets many people from judges to lawyers to police to counsel/ advocate to men rights activists to other false case victims or ex-victims of false cases and he also discusses a lot with his aunts. Uncles, friends, relatives etc and some of these people misguide the husband in believing that the wife can not goto jail and they may tell the husband to withdraw his counter cases and as soon as the husband withdraws his counter cases under pressure or under misguidance by those people then the wife does not go to jail. Misguiding is so bad that even Lord Krishna misguided the Duryodhana to make the opposite party win in Mahabharata when during the war duryodhana’s mother told him to come fully naked before him so that when his mother will open her eyes then whatever organ/ body part his mother would see that part will become undefeatable but since Lord Krishna was an ardent fan & supporter of the opposite party hence he did shame shame to duryodhana and made fun of him going named before his mother and told him to cover his thighs area at least and duryodhana did the same and consequently his all body parts were undefeatable but his thighs area was not so strong due to the mis advise or misguidance by Lord Krishna.

Moral of the story:-
(1)    Despite being god Lord Krishna, he did this in order to make the opposite party win which means if we believe in advise of those people who mis-guide us then we have lost already and the opposite party had won. Similarly, if the husband has a lot of faith in his lawyer/ advocate and subsequently such lawyer / advocate gets in touch with the opp party and gets some undisclosed favors from the wife in cash or in kind then the husband has lost already but remember that all lawyers are not bad. But I, Atur Chatur, am strictly against using any lawyer/ advocate/ men rights activists in this fight against false cases. Just believe in yourself and proceed in that manner which seems right to you. Follow the advises of your parents especially and if they are not knowledgeable enough then discuss your fighting strategies with them and if they tell you to go ahead then do that which seems right to you & your parents with the blessings of the god. My advises are available for free on the internet and if you do not have money to pay for my services then gather courage and have faith in you and do all possible actions that fit in the case scenario and if your wife has done a 420 IPC crime or other serious crimes then do NOT withdraw your counter cases application against her because withdrawal is as good as dismissed and your right is closed. Do it P-I-P i.e., Party-in-Person as per my personal suggestion. Always remember that, your wife will certainly go to jail with 100% guarantee especially for 420 IPC related crimes but for that the husband needs to be adamant in the same manner the wife is usually adamant when the judge asks the wife whether to send the husband to jail for non payment of maintenance and the wife says yes usually. Remember that if the husband can go to jail in a bl@@dy matrimonial dispute then your wife will certainly go to jail for 420 IPC or related stringent IPC or other crimes and for the success of your wife’s arrest just do not forget to link those 420 IPC or related crimes as the motive behind filing these false matrimonial cases in you. If Indrani Mukherjea can go to jail despite being a woman then your wife can also go to jail for IPC crimes and if Indrani Mukherjea was charged with murder then that does not mean that your wife also has to do murder in order to go to jail. Further, if husband’s mother & sisters or other women relatives can go to jail due to 498a IPC then why not your wife can go to jail. There is no immunity available to a wife and if she has deliberately & intentionally done a crime then she is equally liable to be punished under IPC and other provisions of law.
(2)    Do NOT appoint a lawyer or advocate if he says that your wife can not go to jail for crimes committed by her.
(3)    Do NOT appoint a lawyer or advocate if he says that the judge does not have time to read your WS
(4)    Do NOT appoint a lawyer or advocate if does not discuss the strategy or course of action with you.
(5)    Do NOT appoint a lawyer or advocate if he shows so much attitude to you and does not listens to you and wants to do everything as per his own wishes.
(6)    Do NOT appoint a lawyer or advocate if he promises to settle the matrimonial dispute at a certain amount and in return asks for a percentage of amount saved by him. For example tells the wife not to settle at 5 lakhs as hewill demand 25 lakhs and out of that he will give 10 lakh to wife and 15 lakh he will keep to himself or give some share to judge or mediator. If any lawyer does some deal with you then immediately file a complaint against him in the bar council & central vigilance commission by submitting audio-video recording evidences.
(7)    Do NOT appoint a lawyer if he shouts at your ideas or suggestions or if he shouts at the ideas or suggestions that you gather from internet or other reliable sources.
(8)    Do NOT appoint a lawyer or advocate if you discuss something with you and he gets angry at you and tells you to leave his cabin and get your work done by others.
(9)    Do NOT appoint a lawyer or advocate if he asks you to pay full payment in advance.
(10)Do NOT appoint a lawyer or advocate who asks you such a low fees which is practically not possible.
(11)Do NOT appoint a lawyer or advocate if he pressurizes you to give contact details of your spouse and promises to settle the case by paying certain amount to police or court etc.
(12)Do NOT appoint a lawyer or advocate if he presents himself to be the karta-dharta of a certain court and claims that judges work as per his desires in that court or pretends before you as if he knows someone who has links with the police or judiciary.
(13)Do NOT appoint a lawyer or advocate if he shows you a ex-client and falsely claims you about that client having won under his guidance. In such case must ensure to read the judgment or documents at indiakanoon website about that client only then move ahead.
(14)Do NOT appoint a lawyer or advocate if he discourages you about party in person and tries to put fear in you that judge will put you In jail if you will go PIP before him.
Party in Person [Inderjit Singh Sawhney in Delhi High Court]
This PIP resulted in a landmark judgment from Delhi High Court for benefit et al r/w:-
http://indiankanoon.org/doc/153453675/

KABADDI TACTICS
In Order to fight this fight against gender biased laws, one needs to understand the KABADDI TACTICS where your prime focus even if it is your wife but still you need to focus on some more areas which infact trouble u & your family more than the wife herself. This will help you understand how to close these false cases & SOCIAL STIGMA on u & family.

Remember, the courts all over the world give sanctity to a wife/lady/abla naari's words & your core concentration must be to break this myth and to tell the court (thru Perjury & Vehement Argumentation) that she is NOT abla nari because her words include, "perjurious accusations" & also inlcude the terminology "shirking responsibilities" in case that suits.
YOUR FIGHT IS NOT WITH YOUR WIFE Your fight is NOT with your wife and instead Your fight is with the system which believes the words of your wife as sacred which you very well know are false. Attack on this sanctity belief of the courts & make them believe that the plaint by your wife is vexatious & these accusations are perjurious.

Because if u include all those averments within WS+Perjury then that would mean "EK TEER DO NISHANA" because while replying to her plaint you will put Perjury within WS & this will mean that your WS will prove that her complaint is vexatious & also filled with perjurious accusations & shirking responsibilities.

aturchatur's advise
Perjury & Contempt are the two ways to close these false cases on u & to come out of this SOCIAL STIGMA on u & family if you just rely on the words of the complainant only then that is the best approach as per aturchatur.

Expl to aturchatur's advise
When she files a plaint against u then that copy of plaint is enough & if you just pull her words only & just prove that so & so allegations are vague, this is perjurious, this is vague, this is contradictory, this proves vacillating stand, this proves shirking responsibilities, etc etc then that is the best possible approach as per aturchatur. Further, at any point of time, if you need to get more words out from her which she is NOT giving then apply Order XI Rule 1 r/w:-
Source:- http://socialstigma.in  (see post with heading Interrogatory or Order XI Rule 1)

And if u want to speed up the matter other than Order XI Rule 1 then use 21B as follows:-
Source:- http://socialstigma.in  (see post with heading speedy trial)

Why other than Order XI Rule 1 because this Order XI Rule 1 will itself work fast with 7-7 days
time to respond ?
Thanks Friends, and
Best Wishes & Happy Fighting false cases & SOCIAL STIGMA on u & family !!!

Mahatma Gandhi said, "IF YOU DON'T ASK, YOU DON'T GET"
Atur Chatur says, "WHAT YOU WILL ASK, THAT YOU WILL GET"

Vidyavaan Guni Ati Chatur, Ram Kaj Karibe Ko Atur
Email : aturchatur@yahoo.com


disclaimer:- all advises here to be r/w profile aturchatur.com
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SOCIAL STIGMA (WOMEN) !!!
Friends !!!
A Girl was trapped in Perjury. And she was in SOCIAL STIGMA. I found on internet about her:-

PURPOSE OF THIS THREAD
(1) Purpose of this thread is NOT to unite All the Families alike.
(2) Purpose of this thread is ONLY TO UNITE & SAVE THOSE FAMILIES ONLY where there is a POSSIBILITY
OR WILLINGNESS to unite their family life or married life &/or where cldren/issues involved &/or where love existed ever.

SOME1 wrote:
Can u pls elaborate ? And Happy.B'day Atur Chatur sir. You are a perfect nine genius. I wish you very best.

aturchatur wrote:
@ SOME1, thanks.
i found about this girl on internet where she narrated her story. she told that out of fit of anger she went to PS to lodge complaint. The PS guys referred her to CAW Cell. She wanted union with her husband & wanted him to live with him separately but her parental relatives never suggested her to unite. Instead they themselves consulted with a low earning lawyer & made a false complaint with wild allegations. She said that her relatives not even let her read that complaint copy & just got signs from her. She wanted to pass her messages to her husband but her relatives always stood between husband & wife.

The moment husband got copy of CAW Complaint, he filed divorce on the basis of wild allegations (cruelty) by wife. Her relatives then using M Power got him arrested for three days. The wife never knew about all that. She used to write on networking sites that she loves being with her husband but her relatives shattered all her hopes to reunion.

aturchatur wrote:
i don't know whether the woman is lying or is trying to create a better picture of herself or infact is speaking truth.

aturchatur wrote:
@ et al,what should be the approach for a genuine woman who don't want to be labelled disgruntled by filing
false cases & who wants to unite. is there a way to unite the families at pre-caw, post-caw, post-FIR, post-arrest,
post-CS, post-DV, other stages ?

SOME2 wrote:
@Chatur
Doubt if such "genuine woman" exists ? Considering there has been no cruelty for dowry then how come any genuine woman in a fit of rage lodge a 498 complaint ? She can raise a domestic violence complaint but if she lodges a 498 complaint then doubt if she was genuine just my 2 cents.

aturchatur wrote:
@ SOME2, I myself also doubt strongly.
But the question is scope of reunion. Is there any scope of reunion with such woman?

What a woman can do in beginning at least if not later to save the marriage or is it a hard fact that women who leave their husbands they do this permanently ?
Is it always planned ?
Even if it is planned or unplanned then what a woman can/ must/ might/ shall/ have to do at various stages to unite with her husband & family. (in the light of various sections like 304B, second 498a, & other options which Indian system give to them to trap innocent men in false cases).

Is there a solution?
Is there a possibility?

Or it that all gone once she leaves husband’s home?

let's discuss from different pointers viz., pre-caw, post-caw, post-FIR, post-arrest, post-CS, post-DV, other stages?

so, even if 1% women are genuine & want to save their marriages then such knowledge will help both the genders. if even one family is united i will feel my purpose fulfilled.
et al :- suggestions invited.

SOME2 wrote:
@chatur
pre-caw & post-caw : There is some scope for reunion provided both husband and wife mend their ways and suppress egos.

post-FIR, post-arrest, post-CS, post-DV, other stages : After all these stages it becomes really difficult for reunion because of lot of factors, understanding the wife is genuine but as the crow flies men really need to save their a$$ rather reunion ...

aturchatur wrote:
@ SOME2, u said “post-FIR, post-arrest, post-CS, post-DV, other stages : After all these stages it becomes really difficult for reunion because of lot of factors, understanding the wife is genuine but as the crow flies men really need to save their a$$ rather reunion ...
But my next question is as follows:-
Is it very difficult or is said to be impossible? Are all the doors closed I mean to ask?
Let's say 498a becomes compoundable in all states. Will there be any scope ?
Let's say litigations become a no arrest scenario. Will there be any scope ?
Basically, I want you all friends to present here a MOU i.e., an agreement to unite families to safeguard men from future troubles i.e., false cases or at least the reduce troubles to the minimum. And to which a women must also agree. If she chooses to sign such an agreement then it shall be assumed she truly wants to unite & will not do such disgruntled practices again. Any suggestions. Thanks

SOME2 wrote:
@chatur
Is it very difficult or is said to be impossible ?
 Difficult if kids are involved and impossible if there are no kids.
Let's say 498a becomes compoundable in all states. Will there be any scope ?
Yes
Let's say litigations become a no arrest scenario. Will there be any scope ?
Yes
I Don't think MOU really works in relationships over time.

aturchatur wrote:
OK, In that case once it becomes compoundable as that's the current task in hands of PM Modi, then there will be a hope towards unification of families.
@ SOME2,  I do understand MOU do NOT work in relationships but once out of such a situation then PAPER TIGER need to be agreed & signed because after police/ court it needs the third party stamp before re-unification, so I personally feel there is need for such a MOU which will at least decrease the fear in minds of men due to gender biased laws in India.
et al, pls suggest !!!

Mahatma Gandhi said, "IF YOU DON'T ASK, YOU DON'T GET"
Atur Chatur says, "WHAT YOU WILL ASK, THAT YOU WILL GET"

Vidyavaan Guni Ati Chatur, Ram Kaj Karibe Ko Atur
Email : aturchatur@yahoo.com


disclaimer:- all advises here to be r/w profile aturchatur.com
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Application for Condonation of Perjury
If a woman wants to unite with her hubby, then she can file application for condonation of perjury and list down all the wrongs/ lies on court said by her. This way woman will move a step further because even if her husband is not aturchatur (i mean perjury applicant) then also at least she will herself make her case weak. This will give an extra point to his hubby & a signal that she is willing to roll back the cases.

The hubby will definitely respond. May be first he will be under apprehension but slowly over some time he will understand & try to respond positively.

@Women, @Feminists, @other false case filers :- no one will get anything by filing false cases. It is a loss of both the sides. Because in a WAR the one who has lesser bruises is declared the winner. So better roll back
one by one. And other p@rty is expected to welcome your decision in the following manner:-
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9HpyNBNvi8

Mahatma Gandhi said, "IF YOU DON'T ASK, YOU DON'T GET"
Atur Chatur says, "WHAT YOU WILL ASK, THAT YOU WILL GET"

Vidyavaan Guni Ati Chatur, Ram Kaj Karibe Ko Atur
Email : aturchatur@yahoo.com


disclaimer:- all advises here to be r/w profile aturchatur.com
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SOME8 wrote:
I do not know about anyone else but my wife is in SOCIAL STIGMA after I filed 420 & 406 cases against her. I informed her family and her three brother in laws about the case and how she ran away from home for my money and jewelry.

My sources tell me that they are very stressed and my wife regularly fights with her bhabhis. I will be sending arrest warrants against her in this months itself in both the cases provided the courts functions (magistrate are being transferred).

I will also be getting her passport impounded u/s 10(3)(e) of the passport act 1967.

Very few people successfully file counter cases against 498 A wife. People think that it is next to impossible to file counter cases against a 498 A wife. But it is not true. Yes it is not as easy as to file a false dowry case but with proper planning and evidence it is possible.

I not only filed cases against my wife but also helped two other victims to file non bailable cases against their
wife and family.

I will discuss about one of those cases-

The guy got married and after two years of the marriage the wife conceived a baby. During tests it was discovered that the wife is infected with a disease which is in chronic stage. The disease can be equated with aids but less deadly. The disease was also transferable as aids putting husbands life at risk if he continued with the conjugal life. He spoke to her parents to find out about the origin of the disease and he came to know that it has come from her family.

The disease was non curable. The boy was poorly advised by his lawyer and instead of filing for annulment of marriage, he filed for divorce on ground of disease and some other ground as suggested by his lawyer. The girl's side filed 498 A. He stood the ground and kept on fighting. He was on provisional bail and was under tremendous pressure from the other side.

He contacted me through one of his relatives whom I helped to secure bail. I advised him to file a criminal case against his wife and his family under various sections including 420 IPC. He will also get bail shortly because we will present his case in a proper manner.

I am confident that his wife and her parents will be arrested in next 3-6 months.
They will face SOCIAL STIGMA.


SOME9 wrote:
@ SOME8, you are right.
Instead of annulment, filing criminal case is always a better option.
And if someone has the documentary evidence also to adduce in the court of law then that will be treated as sone pe suhaga.
The same purpose of divorce or annulment of marriage will be achieved through proper channel i.e., criminal case which this type of marriage involves criminal intent of the person/wife.
Since, divorce is a civil case & it might run for years may 2 to 8 years even if the grounds are vaild.
But as suggested by mr. aturchatur sir above that vehemently persuasion needs to be done. Accordingly , I feel that filing a criminal case suits better because such girl hided this fact which was done deliberately with criminal intent.
@ SOME8, can u provide some information about the another person whom you jelped file criminal nonbailable
cases against his wife.


SOME8 wrote:
No. I do not think it will be proper to divulge any details of the other case.


SOME10 wrote:
yes, i agree with SOME9. criminal case seems better than civil case or divorce case if there are documentary evidences.
pls also suggest some MOU which can be written while uniting between the parties as discussed above.


@ SOME10, I am myself trying to find the key aspects of a MOU that can help break the ice & unite the families.
I got suggestions from some fellow fighters as follows:-
SOME1:- If wife accepts most of the terms of husbands then she should be welcomed back.
SOME2:- If she must write that cases filed by her were false, only then accept her.
SOME3:- She will never accept this fact & only after acquittal this can be proved but only by court.
SOME4:- File criminal counters &/or perjury & let her bend on her knees if need early settlement.
SOME5:- Willingness on the part of wife is also important else EGO is something which will never allow to settle.

et al:- pls suggest, if husband fights these cases then what MOU he shall put forward as in matrimonial disputes
the matter often goes to mediations. Is there any possibility at all to develop such a MOU which might help unite
families.

Mahatma Gandhi said, "IF YOU DON'T ASK, YOU DON'T GET"
Atur Chatur says, "WHAT YOU WILL ASK, THAT YOU WILL GET"

Vidyavaan Guni Ati Chatur, Ram Kaj Karibe Ko Atur
Email : aturchatur@yahoo.com


disclaimer:- all advises here to be r/w profile aturchatur.com
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SOME9 wrote:
@all members, regarding MOU, I can say that it must include a point that, "in future she will not do any act which will cause trouble to husband & his family"

i think this indirect line can be included so if wife does some mischief i.e., wrong allegation which now husband proved wrong in next 498a then a criminal case will become strong against the defaulting wife who signed & agreed that in MOU.

MEMORANDUM OF UNDERSTANDING – COMPROMISE DEED

aturchatur wrote:
SOME1 wrote:
broz, let me put my ACTUAL MOU for your kind perusal. FOLLOW THE APOSTROPHEIZ """""" & the language iz the main arsenal :
Memorandum of understanding is executed at New Delhi Dated: 6th Dec 2013 ( date ) between:

Mrs. SOME1 W/O Mr. SOME1, D/O Mr. Father-in-law presently residing at xyz residence.
(Herein after called the Ist party of the Ist part)

And

Mr. SOME1 S/O (late) Shri ABC and resident of abc residence.
(Herein after called the IInd party of the IInd part)

Whereas both the parties have been married according to Hindu rights, customs and ceremonies on 27/11/2004 at Delhi and after the marriage a girl child namely Good Daughter was born on 15/09/2006.

Due to certain unavoidable circumstances due to marital dispute, the Ist party had to leave the matrimonial home on 09/09/2013 and since then the Ist party is living with her parents. In the meanwhile both the parties were trying to resolve all the disputes/ differences in an amicable way.

"""""""""Under the guidance, social pressure & instruction of few relatives & friends, both the parties’ party had lodged a complaint/ complaints against each other with Sharafat Nagar police station, New Delhi. Due to the strong bond of love between both the parties, amicable talks & agreeing on all the points spoken by each party. Both parties have decided will resolve their differences & disputes etc. while staying together""""""""".

1. Both the parties have agreed to create a healthy atmosphere in the matrimonial home so their daughter can grow in the best possible way & become a good social being. Both the parties have committed to resolve their grow in the best possible way & become a good social being. Both the parties have committed to resolve their differences in a mature & civil way. Both the parties have committed to give the best environment to their minor daughter.

2. IInd party also undertakes to give sufficient amount to the Ist party for household expenses, besides expenses of the child. As current times, i.e. Economic, physical etc are very uncertain & a husband & a wife both contribute to make a structure into a family home, IInd party may request for some contribution from the Ist party for the things mentioned above, """""""""though only in rare cases where IInd party is unable to provide for them due to some uncertain & unavoidable circumstances. Most importantly, as Ist party & their daughter are the only family IInd party has & no one else""""""""".

3. IInd party undertakes not to indulge in heavy drinking and smoking and shall not give any chance of complaints to the Ist party and shall remain bound by this memorandum of understanding. The same is expected from the Ist party, as in matters of providing homely food, love, compassion & care, etc. towards the IInd party & their daughter.

4. IInd party undertakes not to send sms to the Ist party and her parents, relatives, colleagues etc. which may cause unnecessary tensions. Similarly IInd party has requested with folded hands that anyone from Ist parties family, sisters along with their matrimonial home members, relatives, friends, known ones etc, should “ not “send any message in any form, may be via mobile device sms, via internet, written etc.

5. IInd party has requested with that he should not be forced by the Ist party, her family, relatives, friends, known ones etc to visit their residential, official places, family functions & vice a versa including the visits of the mentioned members to the marital home of IInd party & Ist party as that has caused mental trauma & agony in the past 9 years.

"""""""""6. II party has requested the Ist party, her family, sisters along with their matrimonial home members, relatives, friends, known ones etc ‘ to not to’ interfere in IInd party & Ist party’s marital relation & their home affairs, in any other activity & any which way of the mentioned parties. Henceforth, IInd party is requesting this so that the relation of Ist party, IInd part & their daughter can blossom which has suffered lots of setbacks in the recent times.

7. IInd party requests Ist party to acknowledge if any money in cash or kind has been demanded or not by IInd party from Ist party’s parents. If yes, then would like its details. Everything belonging to IInd party has to be returned by the Ist party & vice versa. This includes materialistic, documentary things etc.

8. Ist party has to accept if the IInd party has been a provider/ major provider towards all expenses at their matrimonial home since the first day of marriage. Ist party has to acknowledge if the IInd party been responsible & provider towards their daughter’s school fees since her first day at school. Ist party has to either admit or deny if the IInd party has fulfilled all the demands of Ist party since the first day of their marriage. IInd party will continue to do so the best of ability.

9. IInd party would like to request on clarity on the case of Domestic Violence filed by the Ist party against the IInd party. It has to be acknowledged that this case did not hold true on everything mentioned. There are other facets to this case from IInd party, which are not mentioned.

10. II party clearly reiterates that he wishes ‘not to stay’ ever with anyone apart from the Ist party & their minor daughter. II party knows that there are some social obligations but would request Ist party, her family, sisters along with their matrimonial home members, relatives, friends, known ones etc to at least give a gestation period of 1 year to this couple alone, so both parties bring back the good days of their marriage & their relation""""""""".

11. IInd party shall not ask/give threat in future to the Ist party & vice versa to leave her/ his matrimonial home or
residence in which they are currently residing.

"""""""""12. Both the parties undertake to withdraw all the complaints/cases etc against each other & the complaints/ cases pending be treated as settled being for all purposes’. Concealing any such information/ legal case will be treated as ‘ null & void legal case ‘.

13. Ist party will not force the IInd party to obey to any of her demand by threatening to commit suicide.

Details of Cases Respectable Court Case Filed In Filed By
1. Sec 9of Hindu Marriage Act Ms. Madhu Jain,Judge family Court,Saket IstParty
2.Sec 12 of Domestic Voilence Ms.Monika Saroha,Mahila Court,Saket I stParty
3.Sec 13of Hindu Marriage Act Ms. Madhu Jain,Judge family Court,Saket IIndParty

In witness where of both the parties here to execute this memorandum of understanding in presence of the
following witnesses:-
Witnesses
1. Mrs. SOME1
(Ist party)
2. Mr. SOME1
(2nd party) """""""""

aturchatur wrote:
@ SOME1, Thanks for your genuineness & integrity & helpful nature to help the fellow victims.
This will certainly be helpful for forum members in drafting their own MOU.
Regarding your other points I will comment later on. But, this 13th point is great & this is something I am looking for to make a strongest of MOU's.
et al, pls come forward with your suggestions.

Mahatma Gandhi said, "IF YOU DON'T ASK, YOU DON'T GET"
Atur Chatur says, "WHAT YOU WILL ASK, THAT YOU WILL GET"

Vidyavaan Guni Ati Chatur, Ram Kaj Karibe Ko Atur
Email : aturchatur@yahoo.com


disclaimer:- all advises here to be r/w profile aturchatur.com
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SOME2 wrote:
 Tried hard but still not able to believe the story of the lady...
***As per her, she told that out of fit of anger she went to PS to lodge complaint.
=> If the husband let the lady come again... What is the guarantee that she will not get angry again ever in life...

***The PS guys referred her to CAW Cell. She wanted union with her husband & wanted him to live with him separately but her parental relatives never suggested her to unite. Instead they themselves consulted with a low earning lawyer & made a false complaint with wild allegations. She said that her relatives not even let her read that complaint copy & just got signs from her.
=> She had guts to go and file false complaint against her husband in anger but do not had guts to go against her parents and relatives although she wanted to unite again and also knew that she is about to cross the deadline of marital life if not reunited here... and have future only with her husband....

*** She wanted to pass her messages to her husband but her relatives always stood between husband & wife.
=> Great story... She seems to be and educated lady must have contact number, fb id etc etc... does she mean to say that relative and parents accompanied her in washroom also...

***The moment husband got copy of CAW Complaint, he filed divorce on the basis of wild allegations (cruelty) by wife. Her relatives then using M Power got him arrested for three days. The wife never knew about all that.
=> Ya.. definately all will believe this.... B@LL SH!T... Sunney me accha lag raha hai relatives ne paisey kharch kiye... hah hah haa...

***She used to write on networking sites that she loves being with her husband but her relatives shattered all her hopes to reunion.
=> She used to write in networking sites... why not contacted directly... kaha hai phone calls, msgs, emails...
_________________
Regards,
SOME2
""!!!""Failure lies not in falling down. Failure lies in not getting up""!!!""


SOME3 wrote:
No one remained girl or boy after one is married.
He is a man or women.
Correct this in your conversations.


SOME4 wrote:
i feel this all going for an MOU is b@llsh!t....... basic is the two spouses have lost faith in one another.... and this faith can't be brought back so easily....... the base of this loss of faith are the laws that have been made biased since their beginning...... since the whole family of the man is deliberately involved in this, its very difficult for a man to believe his wife if she is genuine in what she is saying........ moreover todays society is going to be moreover equality driven but the equality needs equal thinking and equal responsibility............ these biased laws make a boy more responsible than a girl.... still posing women a weaker section of society.......... this thinking of the society taking a girl more weak than a boy in every aspect take it economic or social and giving them opportunity to go up in their social cadre by making biased laws is the base of the problem............. this current social thinking of considering a woman weak and thereby giving them biased laws to play with..... is destroying the families by generating fear in a man's mind......... what a man can do..... its difficult to say....... as his whole family is at stake........ second problem is women are not true to their own-self...... one side they say that they want to live with the husband but other side they threaten to file false criminal cases against the husband and his family................ I mean why.......why do they file criminal cases..... this duel mindedness of the wife is complicated to understand...............

is she getting something less in the marital life....... or she thinks she deserves more than what she is getting........... but hey...... the problem is also with the rich families......... i think the problem is not money........... most of the girls who file these kind of criminal cases are well educated girls who are very much capable of earning money ........... but what is that in their mind that is provoking them to file false cases,...........

i can think of my case .......... where my wife took a horrible form from the first week of marriage........ trying to control me and my financials...... by forcing me to show my investments and my earnings as she said that doing that was her right......... but why.... she used to say..... all the money is hers and her father has bought me up from my families...... what the f--k........ am i a nonsense to toil hard in job in day and night............. the problems starts with control freakiness of a girl........... which was well pushed up by the parents of the girl in the girl's mind mostly done by mother or sister of the girl......... resulting in start of quarrel in the home.........

these parasitic parents or siblings can't leave their daughter on her own fearing incapacity of their girl............ to run her family by her own..... so they start


aturchatur wrote:
Thanks SOME2, SOME3, SOME4, et al for your valuable suggestions.
Let me share my own purely personal thoughts:-
that, a Girl/ Women/ Female being abla naari, tries to take decisions in life in such a manner that she doesn't put herself in bad situation. (This is truth for almost every woman at least for the abla nari). This is also the root cause of the problem. Because, SOME1 said, "AURAT KA CHARITRA BADA VICHITRA"

Now, once she is out of her husband's house then she fears & develops different types of fears by her own.
And when SOME1 tells her that you left your husband hence he will do this that, then she easily gets influenced by it.
She is unable to stop the fight as she doesn't have faith in herself.
Even if she is working to the top-most positions still thinking pattern of women is defensive & it's not as open as
of male thinking pattern.
Fighters pls suggest a MOU which a male fighter must stick to before taking her back??


SOME3 wrote:
No taking back, fight till it ends.


SOME5 wrote:
Relationship cannot/will not grow/will not last.... based on the points/conditions written on a piece of paper [MOU].
Looks like you still have soft corner for your lady, probable reason is because of your kids.
You can write as many conditions as possible but who knows that the lady will not change her mind and repeat the same drama.

"If history repeats itself, and the unexpected always happens, how incapable must Man be of learning from experience."
-George Bernard Shaw

DO NOT TRY TO SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE FOR THE SAKE OF SOCIETY.

IF KIDS ARE INVOLVED....APPLY FOR VISITATION AND CUSTODY AS APPLICABLE.

KIDS OR NO KIDS....DO NOT TAKE A 498A WOMEN BACK.

I came across a post in the forum which depicts that we the victims are the lucky ones. With the help of these false cases we can get rid of these gruesome ladies and start afresh in our life.
I'm not against reconciliation if you are planning to, but this is just my opinion. Decision is always yours [only yours]
Thanks
Discrimination is advised.

aturchatur wrote:
Make a Strongest MOU which she can NOT accept
And if she accepts then snakes venom is out & she can live with you with gender unbiasedness so least trouble next time.

(Most of these are the discussions of the year 2014)
Thanks Friends, I am concentrating only on CrPC91, Perjury & RTI's in my cases. But the question is if that po!sonous sn@ke agrees to take back cases but husband is adamant now towards, 211, 182, 340, 195, 312, 499, 500 cases on her & she knows that she might be in trouble (at least trouble in mind) & is willing to settle, only in that scenario, How can the MOU be made ?

See, the main trouble comes from 406 & NOT from 498a for the husband. Also the threat comes from from Belongings, RTR, Maintenance, Dowry, Domestic Relationship, Trusteeship, Suicide Threats by wife, Criminal Intimidation, 34, adultery, impotency, sexual relationship, friends interference & involvement, 377 etc etc etc etc.

If SOME1 can write down all the threats posed by a 498a lady in pointwise & numbered manner in first 498a case then from there I will myself try to write a MOU which u all friends can suggest me thereon.

I am narrating the threats. Friends, pls increase the count by bringing forward 'n' number of threats which these ladies have posed in front of different fighters so that including all points we can try to make a MOU to cover up at least the maximum possible threats IF NOT ALL.
Here starts the list.
Please add even the remotest allegations by such wives to this list so that a strongest MOU or Compromise Deed can be prepared.
The list prepared by me is as follows:-
(1) Belongings
(2) Trusteeship
(3) 406
(4) If False 498a or CAW with any single false complaint howsoever small it may be ,. . . . .
(5) If serious allegation like 377, 313, ONDT etc in future . . .. . . . .
(6) RTR
(7) Maintenance
(8) Dowry - - - - - - all taken back & nothing bla bla bla . . . .
(9) Domestic Relationship
(10) Suicide threats by wife
(11) Visit any local Mahila Aayog &/or PS every month to give statement . . .
(12) Suicide threats by wife . . . . . . .
(13) Cyber threats by wife . . . . .
(14) Criminal Intimidation . . . . .
(15) Will take care of cldren, duty hours . . . . . . . . . what all jobs she will do . . . . . . . .
(16) 34 IPC
(17) Adultery
(18) Impotency
(19) Sexual Relationship b/w husband-wife & frequency . . . . . . . . & punishment for refusal &/or wanton
behavior
(20) IPC 377 i.e., unnatural sex
(21) Friends role & interference . . . . . . . .
(22) Any Other work (304B,u/s,u/s,u/s) which might cause inconvenience to Husband or his family or relatives.
(23) I understand this MOU & I am an educated lady & without any pressure or coercion I am signing this.
(24) My husband will pay in my so & so bank account number this that & in return I will take care of household expenses bla bla
(25) Financial Condition:- She will pay from my own property in case any case is filed in future by me & I shall NOT be entitled bla bla bla bla . . . . ... . . . . .it's rough version pls excuse
(26) She admits falsity of complaint due to instigation by my dissident relatives whose indoctrination spoiled her married life.

Friends, I request you to come with some creative ideas so at least one ghonsla is united reading this. And if the parties wish to divorce from each other then this stronger compromise deed can help them part their ways amicably without any future troubles or future dispute possibilities on the agreed terms & conditions.

INTERESTING DISCUSSION of the year 2014
SOME1 wrote:
Use common sense brother:
If u add in MOU that she cannot accuse u of DV in the future, will MOU protect u if she calls police to ur home to show self-inflicted injuries? Along with filing a case on u under DV, u'll be lucky if they don't book u under 307.


aturchatur wrote:
Thanks SOME1 for acting as my NINDAK. First of all, I repeat as I already wrote above that it is a rough draft & I am trying to cover all the points.
That's why I wrote, "I am narrating the threats. Friends, pls increase the count by bringing forward 'n' number of threats which these ladies have posed in front of different fighters so that including all points we can try to make a MOU to cover up at least the maximum possible threats IF NOT ALL."
Brothers, et al, I have NOT made the draft MOU as yet. It is just inclusion of some threats which a 498a lady poses. When I will write the finalized version for the benefit of all, that will include technical viewpoints.


SOME1 wrote:
She has all the rights to get justice if a crime is being committed against her at any point in her life. Any contract that prevents her from doing so will be declared unenforceable.


aturchatur wrote:
You are absolutely right brother., But the MOU's purpose will NOT be to prevent her from getting justice. This MOU will just remove the "ABLA NAARI" tag from her & whichever false allegation her husband will prove wrong will make that false allegation of her turn into a criminal complaint against her DEFINITELY due to wordings of such MOU which I am pretentious of making.


SOME1 wrote:
I have a lawyer who either answers my questions or he outright admits to me he doesn't know the answer: according to him, MOU HAS ABSOLUTELY NO POWER to stop any police complain or court proceedings.(not even current proceedings, let alone the future ones) It can only be used as an evidence at the most.


aturchatur wrote:
@ SOME1, You yourself answered it above. That MOU will act as an evidence. That's what I want. In addition to evidence, it will also act as of such a nature that her falsity might put her behind bars. If NOT she will have to melt her mettle to prove in court of law. Brother believe me, The MOU that I am pretentious of making will certainly reduce the worries to some extent at least & will take the load out of victims of false cases who will stay cautious thereafter.

SOME1 wrote:
Think, how admissible or how effective this evidence will be if the alleged crime occurred after signing MOU.


aturchatur
wrote:
Even if this is lesser admissible in all cases but still it will put a burden on her to prove all falsity. At least she will be very highly cautious to make the next complaint against innocent lives. Same cautiousness a wife wants from her husband who goes to CAW just to scare husband & then goes back with him & lives in his house with . . . . . ..
Why can't precautions be taken by any husband also while writing MOU ?

SOME1 wrote:
Don't get me wrong Atur, I admire ur hard work.


aturchatur wrote:
Thanks Bro, Being my friend you wrote this. This means you are one of my best nindak's who wants me to improve the tactics. This NINDA helped me positively bro.

SOME1 wrote:
I think coz of ur hard work u saved huge lawyer fees n ur hard work is making ur wife behave like a good woman as she's not trying to harm u any further. I think ur hard work is making the police behave like good boys too.


aturchatur wrote:
You may be correct SOME1 that due to my efforts opp g@ng might be trying to behave good, but I have solid proofs against all those wrt Contempt & Perjury.
However, I am least worried about what they are doing/ intend to do. I am just working on the BANDAID
FORMULA. i.e., nip-it-in-the-bud approach.
Source:- check the keyword nip-it-in-the-bud at http://socialstigma.in


SOME1 wrote:
And I like ur posts coz they make me laugh as u r a colourful person: recently u've started inserting latin into ur posts like et al & viz. I don't know whether to admire ur learning abilities or call u pretentious.


aturchatur wrote:
Thanks Bro. I admire your heart filled efforts to act as my NINDAK. We will hopefully meet when u land India.


SOME1 wrote:
Keep up the hard work Atur Chatur Sir I must say.


aturchatur wrote:
Thanks SOME1, I take this praise positively & I will try my best to work towards unification of families wherever possible and to help them in compromise deed wherever they feel to get separated by way of MOU or Compromise Deed.


SOME1 wrote:
Atur bhaiyaa. Hum kab say ho gayai aap kay nindak???
I admire u n ur hard work. How did u ignore this part of my post?
I honestly think u r a very colourful person n I love reading ur posts.
I think the kind of ideas u r coming up with, even ur wife does not know what is hitting her.
U r brave enough to file a case on the police. Not many in this forum can say that.
Need I say more?
Keep up the hard work.
Jeo Atur bhai, jeo.


SOME1 wrote:
Let me say more: u have done all this without any help from a lawyer.


aturchatur wrote:
@ SOME1 Bro, You read that I told you my NINDAK but don't you know that I love NINDAK's.
Because NINDAK SACHA SAATHI HOTA HAI.
A NINDAK is true friend. I wrote that positively so please cheers as I took that as praise in positive sense.
Check this post:-
Source:- search keyword “NINDAK” at http://socialstigma.in


SOME1 wrote:
Atur, I just wanted to debate on a topic. I don't know why u took it personally. I still say do not compromise with MOU as a pillar. It can collapse easily. If u r gonna compromise, make sure u r basing ur decision on something more than a MOU.

As my lawyer told me n I believe him: MOU has no value n can be backed out of at any time.

Brother Atur, I regret posting a reply here: I did not want to discourage u. U r doing things that I can only dream of doing. U r a quick learner: when most of us panicked n paid money to lawyers, u became an adamant student of law n never looked back. Above all, u posses bravery: I don't know anyone who took on the police.
Tabhi toh hum keh rahay hai ....
... jeo Atur bhaiyaa, jeo.

Mahatma Gandhi said, "IF YOU DON'T ASK, YOU DON'T GET"
Atur Chatur says, "WHAT YOU WILL ASK, THAT YOU WILL GET"

Vidyavaan Guni Ati Chatur, Ram Kaj Karibe Ko Atur
Email : aturchatur@yahoo.com


disclaimer:- all advises here to be r/w profile aturchatur.com
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MOU is the Strongest of Documents
Let me explain an example:-
An Old Lady was suffering from a deadly disease & doctor told that she will die in one to three months max.
Her Only Son was impotent even after 25 yrs of his marriage with her dauther in law.
Their family was poor & they couldn't even manage two times food.
This old lady was blind due to old age.
This lady was an ardent bhakt of ganesh ji.
Ganesh ji prakat hue aur poochha mai prassannn hua, bata tujhe kya chahiye?
She said arrr ganesh ji, i am , mai to, mujhe na, mujhe to . . . . . . . ar, brr, grr,, @!!@$@#%$^$%^
Ganesh ji said, are ghabrao nahi, mai kal fir aa jaaunga, aap soch k rakhna ki kya chahiye lekin yaad rakhna mai ek hi vardaan de sakta hoon, do nahi
She said, OK Ganesh ji. Ganesh ji antardhyan ho gaye.
This lady asked suggestions from her old friends, neighbours, family etc etc.

SOME1 told ask for your long age as u are about to die in 3 months.
SOME2 told ask for your eyes bcoz long age is of no use if u can't see the world.
SOME3 told tu to buddhhi ho gayi marne wali hai, apne bete k liye naukri/business/paisa maang le
SOME4 told kul ka diya maang taki tera kul mit na jaaye, apne bete k liye beta(aulad) maang pagli

Old Lady slept with these thoughts & could not sleep whole night as tomorrow Ganesh Ji will come.
Kya Maangu??

Next Day, Lord Ganesha came. Aanti ji kaisi hain aap, kuchh socha aapne, batao kya ek vardaan chahiyte.
She said, "Mai Sone k palne mein apne pote ko khelta hua dekhna chahti hoon."
Ganesh ji muskuraye aur vardaan de diya. See how she got everything she wanted urgently.
Sone ka palna = Money/paisa
pota = boy child
khelte hue dekhu = vision/eyes & long age for herself & disease free life

NOTE:- These days girls & boys are equal but this story relates to a time when son's were preferred over daughters.

But still one can get an idea how to select wordings of a MOU & include criminal sections within it gol-mol to make it a strongest of MOU's.

Friends, pls offer suggestions regarding:-
My above post which mentions pointers which can be included in a MOU
so we all can try to write a strongest MOU sample including criminal sections gol-mol into it. Thanks

Mahatma Gandhi said, "IF YOU DON'T ASK, YOU DON'T GET"
Atur Chatur says, "WHAT YOU WILL ASK, THAT YOU WILL GET"

Vidyavaan Guni Ati Chatur, Ram Kaj Karibe Ko Atur
Email : aturchatur@yahoo.com


disclaimer:- all advises here to be r/w profile aturchatur.com
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SOME1 wrote:
 Court is not bound by any MOU. It should be the understanding between both the parties either to part or to stay together. no court entertain cases running and you living together. Court is already burdened with cases.
MOU's are meant for non-living as per courts. Courts/law by themselves not gender biased, but the judges are, the staff, the society...............


SOME2 wrote:
It is always said that the courts are gender biased or the judges are gender biased. But I think only laws are gender biased which needs changes and they need to have more check and balances to stop its misuse.
When I filed cases against my wife, everyone said that court will not take cognizance against a 498 A abla nari.
But I knew in my heart that law may be biased but the judges cannot be. The processes are not biased and I was right. I got non bailable sections imposed on both the cases against my wife and throughout the entire process I did not felt for a moment that any person in the court, be it the magistrates or the peshkars or my lawyer or the munshi, was biased.
Just file any criminal case against wife as soon as she leaves her matrimonial home and see how her dowry and other cases get quashed as counter blast cases. So where is the bias in judiciary?
However in most of the cases it is practically not possible for a husband to initiate criminal action against his wife because he does not want to break his family.
The laws are biased and the judiciary cannot do anything about it except implementing it.


SOME2 wrote:
Congratulations to Aturchatur

Your popularity has reached to such a level that you have been successful in getting not only fans but also
critics for yourself.

Keep up the good work.


SOME3 wrote:
Guyz the actual fact iz 'men never want to spoil their own life, family & home.
It doez not mean that women want that, rather the ass HOLEZ surrounding hiz/ wife are the real culprits'.
Letz take my example : wife told her parentz to file 498A, 406 etc against her huzband i.e. Me.
If her parentz made her understand that marriagez are not a joke & moreover they cud!ve made her understand about the future of our daughter, then my adorable wife wud've NEVER file false cases against me.
So, saas, sasur, saaliz etc are the real culprits.
Good day. Cheerz.


aturchatur wrote:
I AGREE WITH YOU BROTHER, Instigators are the main cause but after a certain time such a level comes that re0unification becomes impossible so if a man wants re-union then Compromise Deed needs to be prepared in such a manner that future filing of false cases becomes unsustainable for the wife. Such points needs to be included in this for which my draft is already ready. I will share with you guys asap. Thanks

Mahatma Gandhi said, "IF YOU DON'T ASK, YOU DON'T GET"
Atur Chatur says, "WHAT YOU WILL ASK, THAT YOU WILL GET"

Vidyavaan Guni Ati Chatur, Ram Kaj Karibe Ko Atur
Email : aturchatur@yahoo.com


disclaimer:- all advises here to be r/w profile aturchatur.com
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Yet another interesting discussions of the year 2014
SOME1 wrote:
Guyz the actual fact iz 'men never want to spoil their own life, family & home. It doez not mean that women want that, rather the ass HOLEZ surrounding hiz/ wife are the real culprits'.

aturchatur wrote:
Mr. SOME1, You are Correct. I am myself arguing in & out of court with many people that it is INTERFERENCE, INTERFERENCE & only INTERFERENCE between two noble souls which destroy their Sacred GHONSLA.
Source:- http://socialstigma.in (search keyword INTERFERENCE)

SOME1 wrote:
Letz take my example : wife told her parentz to file 498A, 406 etc against her huzband i.e. Me. If her parentz made her understand that marriagez are not a joke & moreover they cud!ve made her understand about the future of our daughter, then my adorable wife wud've NEVER file false cases against me. So, saas, sasur, saaliz etc are the real culprits. Good day. Cheerz.

aturchatur wrote:
Yes Mr. SOME1, That's what there is a need for such an MOU which NOT only wife signs but her relatives must also sign.

SOME1 wrote:
I fully now agree with Mr. Aturchatur as MOU is the only way to bring her back. And if you plan to separate peacefully and amicably then also MOU is the only way out. Atur Chatur is really the best and the points devised by you are really good and these can snatch away soft law protective covering from the disgruntled wife.

Keep us the good work Chatur Bhai. Best of luck!!!

SOME2 wrote:
It is always said that the courts are gender biased or the judges are gender biased. But I think only laws are gender biased which needs changes and they need to have more check and balances to stop its misuse.

aturchatur wrote:
YES, LAWS ARE GENDER BIASED. And this Gender Biased Law can be cut short through MOU.
A Strongest MOU is the need of the hour. But the question will the wife sign on it or NOT. Yes, She will sign on it if you file true Perjury cases on her & she is about to goto jail. Like a live example SOME2 is already on this forum.

FORUMLA:- Wife files false criminal cases. If you file True Criminal Cases on her & also prove that she filed false cases, then will she maintain the same level of attitude. If she is foolish then she will ask unscruplous lawyer's/ men who will sell out her soul by false promises but still won't be able to help her as her Hubby might have filed true criminal cases on her. She will be on the verge on going to jail & that time those men will be the first to run away.

SOME2 wrote:
When I filed cases against my wife, everyone said that court will not take cognizance against a 498 A abla nari. But I knew in my heart that law may be biased but the judges cannot be. The processes are not biased and I was right. I got non bailable sections imposed on both the cases against my wife and I throughout the entire process I did not felt for a moment that any person in the court, be it the magistrates or the peshkars or my lawyer or the munshi, was biased.

aturchatur wrote:
That's very correct. You need to yourself get into this gutter to clean it. Do NOT say mummy mummy papa papa, is kanoon ne hamare desh ko barbaad kar diya. Mard bano mere bhai. Apni taqat  pehchano. Fight these cases but keep only one thing in mind to UNITE THE FAMILY. [Ghonsla Nahi Tootna Chahiye] - Koshish poori karo, aage god ki marzi.

aturchatur wrote:
Perjury on Wife Hint for fellow fighters:-
http://perjury340.blogspot.com

SOME2 wrote:
Just file any criminal case against wife as soon as she leaves her matrimonial home and see how her dowry and other cases get quashed as counter blast cases. So where is the bias in judiciary?

aturchatur wrote:
Yes, These cases must be filed immeditely & before she meets any unscruplous lawyer's & so you can refer her cases as COUNTER BLAST DONE FOR WREAKING VENGEANCE.

SOME2 wrote:
The laws are biased and the judiciary cannot do anything about it except implementing it.

aturchatur wrote:
Yes, And True Criminal Cases, Perjury, RTI & CrPC 91 needs to be used as a pre-requisite to strongest MOU.

Mahatma Gandhi said, "IF YOU DON'T ASK, YOU DON'T GET"
Atur Chatur says, "WHAT YOU WILL ASK, THAT YOU WILL GET"

Vidyavaan Guni Ati Chatur, Ram Kaj Karibe Ko Atur
Email : aturchatur@yahoo.com


disclaimer:- all advises here to be r/w profile aturchatur.com
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    this helpline provides help Non Resident indians working abroad in fighting false 498a and false divorce and other cases filed by wife while the NRI is abroad and this helpline may help the husband fight or contest and close a false 498a or other false cases from abroad without coming to India and without even using any vakalatnama or an advocate / lawyer/ counsel/ solicitor etc

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    the helpline for nri husbands also suggest to fight these cases party in person

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    if you want to know how to close a false fir then you must also know the difference between case closed and a fir closed

    so if a NRI is trapped in false cases then the delhi based men helpline may be contacted to know the real meaning of a false fir and how to close a false fir through fair and unbiased investigation thereby preparation of a b report by the state or police through it's IO i.e., investigating officer

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    if you want to know the procedure for quashing then you must know what is the meaning of quashing because under section 482 of the criminal procedure code then quash of a FIR depends upon several factors viz., grounds for quashing, vague allegations, no prima facie case made out, non maintainability of the case and technical error in the state FIR or court complaint etc

    the procedure for quashing may be to first file a LTR to weaken the case and also may file few RTI's in which the High Court or the lower court may ask you itself to file a Quash Petition, and if after LTR a quash is filed then the chances of success may be higher.

    a LTR means a Lego Technical Representation details of which may be found at socialstigma.in

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    section 409 of the crpc and also the criminal breach of trust are some of the provisions which need to be studied closely before filing for quash

    but if a LTR is filed before going for a quash then that may be the best stratgey as the falsity comes on record of the courts and this may make the quashing feasible or possible with least pain hence in complaints related to 409 ipc also these may be studied invariably.

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    compromise is always sought in a false 498a not just by wives but also by the husbands especially if the husband is a NRI for the simple reason that this compromise is based on an agreement to close all false cases but if the wife is cunning then after receiving initial amount she may turn hostile to the agreement of mutual contested divorce and the husband i.e., NRI husband may lose his hard earned money and this part payment given to the wife may be used against the NRI husband itself by his disgruntled wife.

    go for compromise in a false 498a but at your terms and if you are adamant to pay to the wife despite falsity of these cases then go for LTR based compromise and details about LTR may be found at socialstigma.in and the reason for this LTR is that the section 89 of civil procedure code guides the mediation and if the MCD or agreement is made as per LTR 89 CPC then this may help husband put on record those things which otherwsie may be difficult to.

    hence, it is always beneficial to file for compromise even if the matter is a false 498a especially if you are a NRI and your life and career suffers and you want to get rid of this parasite to go on with your new life with a new wife or live in

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  8. man helpline in delhi (9873540498)
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    quashing means to quash the basic FIR whereas the cancellation of FIR means that state filing a favorable report in favoir of accused and sometimes also as against the complainant and the two modes to achieve this goal is to g for b report or a c report vis-a-vis a final report i.e., FR of Truth

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  9. man cell delhi (9873540498)
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    supreme court of india has issued guidelines on quashing due to the reason that the state usually holds the FIR and as soon as the husband files for quashing then the state/ police i.e., the investigating officer presents a charge sheet which is technically invalid because where was the IO sleeping so long, hence the SC has issued guidelines that even if the CS has been filed after quash petition u/s 482 crpc is filed by husband or co-accused in a 498a matter, or any other matter then, even then the HC or SC may listen to the FIR quashing so this is not an excuse that a CS hjas been filed and the FIR may NOT be quashed but even better would be an approach wherein the husband files a LTR as per the link socialstigma.in before filing for quash u/s 482 crpc

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    whenevr a man/ boy or husband from delhi starts seqarching/ looking for ways to get your fir quashed especially when a false FIR is lodged by the efforts of a wife or girlfriend then the first and foremost strategy is to contact a man cell in delhi but indian government may be in no mood to start such a helpline for men so the boys especially may start looking for man cell or NRI MEN CELL IN DELHI but the real help is provided only by those themselves experts in quashing of a FIR

    hence to get a FIR quashed a LTR may be filed as a pre-requisite to a 482 petition sample

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  11. men rights for nri (9873540498)
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    if you want to cancel a fir from delhi police online portal then you may be at wrong place so far as the delhi police portal is concerned for the cancellation of the FIR

    but if you want to know the right legal procedure to cancel a FIR then you may be at a right place for the sole reason that a FIR is a public document which is placed in the public domain and therefore if you want to close a false FIR then you may need to file a LTR which may be done with the help or assistance of the delhi police or the opnline portal so check the details or procedure of a LTR at the socialstigma.in or the link below.

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  12. man helpline delhi (9873540498)
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    if the FIR has sole sections i.e., 376 and also the 34 ipc then there may be a greatert possibility of gang rape allegations against those accused who have been made co-accused of the crime with common objective

    and not necessarily the commo0n objective may be to gang rape but it may also be to abet the victim to suicide and one of those accuysed may have actually committed rape crime but the co-accused must have the common intention

    the false rape allegations especially those along with 34 ipc crime in a 376 FIR needs to be studied very carefully and found out the loopholes and after that a LTR as per socialstigma.in may be filed.

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  13. man cell delhi (9873540498)
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    whenever a FIR has been filed then there is no question left to ask what happens after FIR because the basic purpose of registration is to conduct an investigation and if the investigation is not conducted then the investigation is not fair and thereafter if the husband files for quash and the IO prepares a Charge Sheet in haux pauz or in a haste then the FIR Quashing petition may still be heard and even the FIR may be quashed without having to go into or look into the CS

    the SC is strict on the state but still for the success of a Quash, a LTR may be filed before filing 482 petition in high court

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  14. men cell delhi (9873540498)
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    quashing of fir means quashing of criminal proceedings and the section 482 of criminal proicedure code may be used for such quashing but before going for quashing it may be relevant to file a LTR before hand so that the unethical practices may be duly curbed and the human rights of the accused may be protected and invoked

    in delhi, the men cell delhi needs a push from the government so that such org's come up and get estabished by the government of india like there may be women cells in almost all localities of delhi

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  15. man cell in delhi (9873540498)
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    best way to clear false allegations and to close a FIR may be to file a LTR given at socialstigma.in

    this LTR may help in closing a false 498a FIR and even the young boys trapped in false 376 related FIR by their livein partners or girfriends needs to be closed via b report or even by a c report and this may be done only by a LTR

    so boys and men need to understand the need for breaking sanctity of a women or at least break the sanctity of that women who has filed a false case on you and this breaking of sanctity needs to be legal or technical i.e., through a LTR only as per the best of our knowledge

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    there is no tme limit to file a FIR but if there is a LIAR then 24 hours is the time as per rule i.e., a crime must be reported immediately or within a maximum period of 24 hours

    else the reason for delay of reporting a crime in delhi needs to be explained and a IO may not be a mute spectator and he is duty bound to do fair investigation of a FIR in Delhi so that the accused if innocent does not have to go into the hardships of mental trauma due to false 498a or other false FIR filed by disgruntled wife or some other disgruntled women

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  17. man helpline in delhi (9873540498)
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    yes the police may very well be able to close a FIR but there needs to be followed a set procedure

    either the IO needs to be non-corrupt but if he is not corrupt then why did he registered the FIR at first instance if he was involved in that FIR registration process

    but if there is a 7 days time limit for enquiry as per Lalita Kumari Judgment which was amending later on to 15 days time by SC then also the State/ Police needs to follow not just the time limit of FIR but also the enquiry procedure prescribed under the law

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  18. man cell delhi (9873540498)
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    procedure for investigation after FIR may also include testification of the veracity of the complainant because if the complainant is of shady character then the FIR may be false and the IO therefore has the legal duty to weed out false FIR during his investigation

    the set procedure needs to be followed for investigation and this investigation may be unbiased and fair otherwise the husband may be required to file a LTR

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    when you wish to leqarn how to fight a false domestic violence complaint, then simultaneously you may also wish to learn the entire procedure i.s., what happens once a FIR has been registered

    similarly, in case of a FIR u/s 498a filed by a wife the police may be asked to close a false FIR in Delhi by contacting the men rights activists in Delhi

    men cell delhi or man cells in delhi may be contacted for filing a LTR against a wife if the case is outrightedly false and the husband has 'n number of evidences

    so, go ahead and file a LTR as per socialstigma.in

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  20. men rights for nri (9873540498)
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    legal procedure to cancel a registered FIR may be read at the below link i.e., 498a ipc by atur chatur

    but so far as the legal proceudre after FIR is concerned this procedure is very very simple i.s., to visit the place of crime and to do investigation because if the investigation is done following the right legal procedure then the cancellation of fir may be known

    and the right legal procedure for the cancellation of fir means to ask legally or technically the police to do fair and unbiased investgation and to do investigation as per the documentary evidences of the husband and thereby to prepare a B Report removing names of all the accused

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  21. man helpline delhi (9873540498)
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    if a NRI from Delhi is settled in USA and he wants to understand the deportation procedure then he may sit confident because the deportation of extradition of a husband or a NRI husband from USA to India even by intervention of immigration/ i.e., Indian Immigration in US is not that easy

    because this is not a case of financial fraud like mallaya modi etc and a mere matrimonial dispute does not attract deportation or extradition so easily if a LTR may be filed as per socialstigma.in

    so, go ahead and file a LTR

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  22. man cell delhi (9873540498)
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    in order to remove a red corner notice against a NRI by visiting men cell in delhi, it may be even better if the consultation by atur chatur on phone may be taken

    because during 498a consultation by atur chatur on phone consultation, the NRI may be able to clear a lot of doubts and thereby 498a consultation or at least a false domestic violence consultation with atur chatur by a NRI husband may be the right procedure or the right approach at this point of time

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  23. men cell delhi (9873540498)
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    by contacting any valid men cell in delhi or a legally authorized man cell in delhi, one may come to know that a 498a is applicable to foreigner also, if that marriage happened in India

    even through Priyanka Choprta and Nick Jonas marriage got happened in USA but still, this marriage was again taken place in India so evenb those marriages with a foreigner like Nick Jonas come under the purview of Indian Marriage and 498a is applicable with full force if such marriage with a Foreigner by an Indian Girl comes at a stand still

    So, why not file a LTR, in case a foreigner marries an Indian Girl in India because that marriage is then said to be Accure or Arisen out of Indian Soil.

    Similarly, a foreigner for his protection may never get his marriage registered in India so that the jurisdiction is never in hands of Indian Judicial System and in that way he may get out of the clutches of the biased laws or procedures in India

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  24. man cell in delhi (9873540498)
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    in delhi, when a NRI husband may look for a helpline for boys in Delhi or a NRI based helpline like men cell or man cell in delhi then he may come across some advocates/ lawyers

    but as per atur chatur, if the 498a FIR is false i.e., based on false and concocted events and the NRI husband has 'n' number of evidences rebutting those false, wild and bald allegations then the advocate may not be looked or searched for in a false 498a FIR

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    how to hire best advocate for divorce of a NRI spouse or NRI couple is a madly searched query so the answer by atur chatur is to either do not get married but if you being a NRI has gotten married to a wrong lady then you may never try to hore an advocate or a lawyer especially if such non resident indian husband from USA/ UK etc has rebuttals or documents prving falsity of the FIR

    whenever your docs are not able to divert the investigation then in order to influence the investigation, you may never contact a lawyer or advocate and there is also no concept of hiring or firing of an advocate or lawyer

    it is called engaging a lawyer and signing a vakalatnama but as per the best knoweldge of atur chatur, the advocate need not/ never be engaged or hired in a false FIR if your evidences/ proofs are sufficient to suffice the falsity of the FIR and the complainant

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    if you want to know how to get bail under false 498a FIR
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    then go no further and read nriquash.com
    because this site explains the importance of quashing for a NRI and the propper procedure and pre-requisites before filing a quash u/s 482 crpc

    the LTR may be filed as a pre-requisite to a Quash so that the NRI husband does not have to go into the ordeal despite having tonnes of proofs against FIR

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  27. man cell delhi (9873540498)
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    if the parents of a NRI husband have been arrested then the right legal procedure may be to file for bail in the court

    rather and pre-requisite before a Bail u/s 438 or 439 of crpc, a LTR may be helpful for some NRI parents who may have been arrested under wrong surmises

    therefore the mandatory period of stay in jail i.e., around two months for a NRI husband's parents in a false 376, 313, 377 or false attempt to murder i.e., 307 ipc complaint or FIR u/s 307 Indian Penal Code, the husband needs to search for party in person tactics rather than contacting divorce lawyers so as per atur chatur, BEWARE OF DIVORCE LAWYERS may be an attempt to guide men victims of false cases especially those NRI husbands in USA/ UK who search for Men Cell in Delhi or a NRI MAN CELL IN DELHI

    Therefore the man cell delhi needs urgent attention so that the government of India plans to starting a similar helpline or men rights activists for men or boys from delhi

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    if a NRI arrested under false FIR having false domestic violence or dowry charges then the NRI needs to file LTR by showing his evidences and rebuttals to atur chatur so that only those or all those relevant proofs may be used or not used in a manner best conducive to uplift the case of the NRI before the bail authorities

    once the bail is obtained the next procedure for a NRI is to go for regularisation of bail from the court

    passport revoked or passport seizure if happened with the NBon Resident Indian husband then that needs to be taken back legally or technically and a LTR may be filed by the NRI husband

    how to fight false domestic violence case as per atur chatur (9873540498)
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  29. men rights for nri (9873540498)
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    men rights for nri may help the non resident indian husband in knowing how to file marriage visa for spouse and this application contains specific details about the girl to be married and taken to the USA/UK by the NRI husband

    498a ipc by atur chatur at the link below may also help non resident husband knowing his rights and procedure for cancellation of a FIR under section 498a of Indian Penal Code

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  30. atur chatur helpline for men in false 498a (9873540498) for NRI (Non Resident Indian) may help a NRI in knowing how to reduce alimony because the alimony or maintenance may be cut by invoking human rights and attacking legal extortion at the right point

    a LTR may be the right approach if the husband wishes to expose falsity of wife thereby reducing alimony or may be arriving at Zero Alimony for the wife based on LTR as per socialstigma.in

    In Delhi also such NRI from all over India may be able to get help from Atur Chatur by his able consultation

    so, go ahead and file LTR

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